Being a new mom is challenging (and very rewarding) in so many ways. Being home all of the time where I used to be very free in my schedule and how I could spend my time is proving to be more of a challenge than I imagined it would be. I previously worked for myself and taught yoga classes at a couple of different studios in town so I could have a fair amount of flexibility in my schedule as well as socialize with friends and students everyday. Now, I feel bound to the couch with the demanding breastfeeding schedule of our little guy and being here for his every whimper (I might be a little too quick to respond to the slightest sign of imminent tears).
Finally having the clearance to drive after the c-section has given me a little peace of mind but not really being able to take the boy out into the world yet doesn’t allow for a great deal of movement beyond a walk everyday.
I am finding myself daydreaming of where he and I will go once he can start to get out and about with me. But, in the meantime I am trying to create some semblance of a routine in my life. I thrive on a routine and he has yet to settle into a schedule so this is driving me even slightly more batty than not being able to get out of the house.
I love this blog entry by Rookie Moms on things to do during maternity leave. I am going to work on this list over the next few weeks even though I am not technically on “maternity leave” but will be a SAHM.
One thing I am finding helpful is getting up and getting myself ready every morning. I feel better when I have showered, gotten dressed and fixed myself up a little bit. The idea of around the house all day in need of a shower just makes me sad. So, every morning hubby and I wake up, I feed baby and then hubby takes over so I can have some time to get ready, have breakfast and do a couple of chores around the house. This makes life much more bearable I am finding. Taking the time to empty the dishwasher, do a load of laundry or clean one of the bathrooms keeps me from feeling overwhelmed during the day.
If you are struggling with finding a way to get it all in I highly recommend you consider getting ready to face the day and getting a couple of things accomplished early on – you will feel so much better about the rest of the day!


You’re so right about the mornings! It’s good to him some sort of routine in the chaotic first few weeks. I think that’s the part I’m most nervous about!
After not being able to take a shower for a day or two while I was in the hospital (because of a c-section) I was amazed by how normal I felt after just having a shower. I promised myself that I would not become one of those women who walks around with dirty hair and dirty clothes all the time because I am not taking any time for myself. Let’s see how that all plays out over time…
Here, here! You can do it!
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Sweet picture. I totally agree with you on the daily shower and chores. As crazy as it may sound, it does help a lot.
What a beautiful photo of your baby!
Thank you very much!