He is finally here!
The Baby Boy
The first few days have been so challenging and yet rewarding. Holding this little guy and looking into his eyes makes time stand still and my heart flutter. Staying up all night trying to navigate the challenges of breast feeding makes time stand still in a totally different way. We are elated and exhausted wich is a combo that keeps us going hour after hour when all we want to do is sleep. Today was our first visit to the pediatrician and things are good. Now, it is a matter of adapting our schedules and learning his routine and how we fit into it! I am so excited about what every day holds now. When will he smile at me, when will he start making fun sounds, when will he start discovering his hands? All of this excitement and anticipations outweighs the misery of 3 am diaper changes and crying jags.
SOOOO precious! Congrats to your family. I understand the first month’s pain and pleasure. But believe me, it only gets better. You will see that. Best, Kellie
Thanks Kellie! We are loving every second including the middle of the night diaper blow outs! I can only imagine that things get better every single day.
Congratulations!
Thank you so much!
Congratulations, he’s gorgeous! What have you named him? x
Thank you so much! His name is Max and he is the cutest thing I think I have ever seen.
Congratulations and welcome to parenthood =) It’s pretty wonderful. I’m sorry I missed this post — I’ve had a really busy week at work — but I wanted to check in and see how things went/how things are going! I’m looking forward to reading more!
Things are going pretty well. Breastfeeding is harder than I ever imagined possible. We are slowly adapting but he is a bit of a biter which is not fun!
Ugh, I know what you mean! I had no idea it would be that hard. I was actually too freaked out about everything to even try it after we left the hospital. Once I made the decision not to continue I felt a huge weight lifted off of me… but I also felt guilty for not trying to keep with it… because of all the benefits of breastfeeding for both of us. Some babies and mommies make it look easy! Regardless… You’ll make the right decision for you and Max. Happy trying!! Also, a friend of mine who breastfed all 3 of her kids said these were great:
http://www.medelabreastfeedingus.com/products/412/tender-care-hydrogel-pads
I feel so emotional looking at this picture…Sixtine was this tiny not too long ago and I remember the feeling. As for breastfeeding, all I can say is: don’t hesitate to ask for help to people who have successfully breastfed or are competent (lactation consultant). I asked for help a little to late but cream, nipple shell/shield (Medela), and cold pads helped. Good luck !
I am amazed by how quickly they change. Surely you experience this too but every day he looks a little different and changes a little more. Everyone tells me to appreciate every moment because they will fly by and I can see how that is true.
Breastfeeding is still a challenge. Luckily we worked with a great doula who came by our house and gave me some pointers. I am using the nipple sheild and cream already and cannot imagine how painful it would be if I were not. I can see why some moms just give up and go to formula right away!
I am almost thinking of going to formula right away if I have another child but my husband would really appreciate if I gave it another try as we both know how much better it would be for the baby. We will see ! It is too early for that kind of talk anyways !
I CAN NOT BELIEVE I MISSED THIS!!!! CONGRATS!!!!!